Rules in making the 1st move.
Are there any unwritten rules on who should make the 1st move in a meet up? Obviously if you don’t like the guy then there’s nothing to talk about.
Should it be the older guy who should make the 1st move?
Or should it be the hotter guy who makes the 1st move as the other less hot guy might have 2nd thoughts in doing so thinking he’s not worthy?
Or should it be the less hot guy who makes the 1st move as he would have less to lose compared to the hotter guy who as more to lose if he gets rejected?
Why do I think that sometimes guys are more complicated than girls? :p
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why play games when you can go for the gold?
ReplyDeleteno need to complicate simple matters ;)
"Why do I think that sometimes guys are more complicated than girls?"
ReplyDeleteBecause between two equally-goodlooking guys, the initial attraction often turns into a pissing contest. And in this contest, he who makes the first move, loses.
Entonces, it's often a No-Win situation.
But I agree with Ternie: why complicate something that's essentially simple? A friend of mine once distilled it into a lovely and simple opening line: "Hey handsome, whatcha doin? Wanna fuck?"
Works like a charm.